Mridul: From Blame to Breakthrough

Mridul was a skilled electrical engineer in a large cement factory, known for his technical competence but also for his quarrelsome and stubborn behaviour. Despite his abilities, his attitude became a barrier to his career growth. While his bosses valued his work, they hesitated to recommend him for raises or promotions. Frustrated by being stuck as a junior engineer, Mridul’s behaviour only worsened, further alienating him from colleagues and superiors.

Everything changed when Mridul attended one of Tej Prakash’s Sensitivity Labs. Over the 2½-day session, his colleagues saw a different side of him—one that was approachable, reflective, and much more pleasant. Upon returning to work, Mridul surprised everyone by being friendlier and more cooperative. The transformation didn’t go unnoticed by management, who shared their feedback with Tej.

In a follow-up review, Mridul explained the root of his behaviour. Years earlier, he had missed a college entrance exam cut-off for a B.Tech. program by a single mark. A clerk had offered him admission for a bribe, but his father, a schoolmaster, refused to pay. Resentful and frustrated, Mridul spent years blaming his father for what he saw as a lost opportunity. This bitterness had affected not only his attitude but also his relationship with his father, which had deteriorated to near silence.

During the lab, a realization struck Mridul: “I could have studied an hour more and earned that missing mark myself.” This moment of clarity freed him from years of blame and resentment. He reconciled with his father and began to take responsibility for his actions and mindset.

The change was transformative. Within a year, Mridul was promoted to Foreman, and today, he leads the Electrical Engineering department.

Key Takeaway:
Sometimes, a shift in perspective is all it takes to break free from frustration and achieve success. By letting go of blame and embracing accountability, Mridul unlocked his potential and mended strained relationships, both personal and professional.